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Surviving trauma, grief or heartache is hard, but to thrive afterwards takes guts. Coaching provides the support, knowledge and patience required to reach places you have only dreamed of.

Make your ideas a reality, build resilience that gives you the courage to break away from limiting beliefs and replace it with life giving truth. By addressing what no longer serves, you are free to manifest and believe in the new beginning on the horizon — killing the imposter once and for all. Unleash the real unapologetic you thriving from a limitless pool of confidence from within that nothing and no one can take away.

Only you know your needs, but I can help make your them a little clearer:

BACK TO BACK: The You-turn that requires self-knowledge and acceptance of the darker parts of our souls existing — you acknowledge and demonstrate a desire to address it in order to qualify for this long term coaching program. You have recognised you need a new beginning realising childhood experiences and or gaps in learning have hindered you from moving forward. It is ideal for those who do not possess full self-knowledge but are starting to become familiar with their true identity which has made apparent positively intentioned actions are having the opposite effect.

You are aware of the avoided ‘darker’ parts of your personality that have been creating chaos in life forcing you react instead of respond when feeling threatened. It makes you decide to act in a way that you do not want to per se, but unexplainably do so anyway – this can also express itself through addictions and or similar vices. You have become good at avoiding the ‘not so bad’ parts of your identity because it is shameful, painful or humiliating to face its impact on your own. If you blame people instead of owning your shame then this is the right program for you — focusing on self-regulation we own it unapologetically. By becoming accountable I empower you to become the true hero of your story which also gives you back the autonomy needed to thrive. The results develop you personally to overcome and move forward in to higher levels of success externally too.

The Love project: Specific goals in mind — you know what you want to do and how to do it but can’t seem to achieve it. This short term coaching program is catered towards people who are self-aware and now desire to use their awareness alongside their self-knowledge to effectively breakthrough limitations and invisible barriers. There will be new opportunities for self-discovery in this space, sharpening your talent and flexing your intelligence muscles to achieve and sustain the life of abundance you desire.

It takes a village: Cost effective long-short term coaching program if you desire transformation in community and on a budget — your needs surrounding disrupting thoughts and patterns are met but not on an individual 1-2-1 basis. Great for introverts/ambiverts who are looking to grow in community and may not have the confidence yet to ask questions that other more sensitive people may have the courage to ask. You grow together and value the insight and perspective of different walks of life to learn that the path set before us is not linear, this is for you. You have the freedom to create smaller mastermind groups post program if you choose to create a new reality to thrive in vulnerably, accountable and intentionally. Good option for any one who is looking for a new space to expand their minds as their current environments may not serve this purpose and flex your self-love muscles freely. Join the waiting list below for more information.

Your personal shadow are the renounced parts of your identity that are unseen to you as you face forward in life standing in the light of our happiness. It is usually masked by personality traits and pollute your true character’s nature as it harbours negative emotions ie pride, rage, envy, greed and selfishness and when left unaddressed and unregulated it disrupts your life unknowingly through attachments such as avoidant or anxious behaviours and self-sabotage your future success. 

It is understandable and why we avoid these areas as we are trying our best. However they cause harm, pain and heartbreak when we don’t gather enough courage to bring them under submission in order for it to serve you excellently. There are inherent positive qualities within these emotions that also been created and abandoned there which is why I focus on self-love and joy to pull out the greatness by viewing the cup half full. It is a deep and patient work that needs compassion both towards self and in the environment you become vulnerable to do the work. Through coaching where I was with you as the light we begin to ask the tough questions why and drive out the ‘dark’ areas/spaces by separating what is good and what is not with truth and knowledge – two of us working together is better than one right?

Information is not transformation – just because you are now aware of what it is does not mean you can change it alone, overnight or with anyone. It takes wisdom and skill as there are traps within this process that will fool you about your own success unless you see it through to the end to see as clear as ever. You must commit to push and pull energy of ‘hard labour’ which is a demanding process and subjects you naturally to accountability that will witness the transformation of a lifetime. It enables us to integrate the positive parts into our character to evolve and make us whole and brave hearted. I guide you through the learning and unlearning and provides you the steady, firm and consistent structure needed to overcome disruptive patterns that are disrupting you.

So in a nutshell, in this context, shadow work is intentionally facing the ‘dark parts’ of your life by owning them. Using the lessons learnt consciously and unconsciously to move forward in a powerful and transformed way you become the hero of your story and will not find the need to seek affirmation or validation outside yourself once through the program. 

Shadow work is not easy or for the faint hearted, but  as a living success story it is not only attainable but worth every tear, sacrifice and conflict (inner and outer) you encounter to get to the new beginning, especially when you are focused on excellence and not perfection as I am.

This is a personal assessment choice rooted in self-awareness and self-knowledge.

Therapy and counselling having personally experienced both are helpful most definitely! However to maintain emotional and mental health post traditional therapeutic paths, coaching it is important as an alternative therapies lifestyle choice especially for survivors now thriving to upkeep your renewal of mind and transformation journey.

Some people need expertises to probe them through their trauma, some need a reminder of what a sound mind sounds like and some need a new way of thinking to be introduced & established – ultimately all of these avenues usher in a new beginning. I collate all methods and choose the latter to catapult you in to your new beginning by introducing and establishing new values rooted truth and wellbeing practices that are also healthy tried and tested lifestyle approaches.

Therapy/counselling helps you to hear and see your thoughts in broad daylight which should in theory make you want to change them, but the reality is that most people find ways to adapt instead of evolve and discover new ways to live comfortably live in the dark. Traditional therapeutic spaces intentionally do not give advice which can result in unknowingly becoming co-dependent on these spaces to continue surviving. Yes, you have taken steps towards by addressing self-care needs but not all self-care holds the same weight.  You may think overcoming it by talking about it but sharing information does not transform, compassion does. Compassionate coaching ‘suffers with you’ but also empowers and motivates to relieve this suffering. 
 
Coaching forces you through intentional and challenging conversation to grow. Practically, emotionally and spiritually and mentally by taking action that results in transformation. This is how sports persons ie basketball, football and cricket players go from being gifted and average to talented and excellent. This process naturally assures a new beginning when committed to the consistency of the upward climb.

Of course, yes & yes!

Payment plans
Equal payments split over the duration of the program. This option makes it cost effective for those who do not have lump sums available but require the transformation. This also gives access to the disruption opportunity needed to go to the next level by making a high value investment back in to yourself which will reap a lifetime reward.

Grant program
Email thewalkwithme@gmail.com with the following information to be considered for a scholarship or grant*:

– Brief overview of yourself — Age, location, occupation and your bigger than life vision.
– Why do you feel a TWWM program is needed — Which program are you interested in and what resonated for you to take action?
– Affordability assessment — If given the opportunity to change your life forever what would you pay?

I am a servant providing a service therefore TWWM was created with charitable love mission which is self-less, but love is sacrificial and wisdom from trauma is not cheap.

*Grants are subject to availability and are not guaranteed — but if you don’t ask you don’t get.

No you do.

I guide you through the necessary work to attain the results you desire. We set a plan and I create the framework and boundaries needed to achieve it. You are the hero, leader and navigator, I am here from an authentic and relatable perspective to ground you and keep you focused on the straight and narrow. Patience, poking and probing are themes to expect when aiming to disrupt yourself from yourself.

You are interviewed during the discovery call if you express interest in this and are then grouped together based off life experience, personality type and goals. This gives you the opportunity to create long lasting relationships or small masterminds post programs if you choose.

Preferences are considered but wisdom will precede — limiting and enabling behaviours hold little weight in the coaching space I hold for you as we are here focusing on enabling you to thrive outside of your comfort zone.

Yes and it would be my pleasure to make a wider and greater impact in the world!

I am a professional public and motivational speaker with 10+ years experience of encouraging and empowering people to dream big, break glass ceilings and confront their limitations to soar higher.

Send me a request to thewalkwithme@gmail.com to discuss further and for more information and availability.

I do this because my life has qualified me, not a course or a degree. life educated me in an invaluable way I am grateful for and now wish to give back. Not everyone has the experience, passion or ability to think objectively and critically to create a subjective tailored plan of action that works. As a highly sensitive person, mental health advocate and empath I take pride in who I am authentically and the strengths they possess individually – who I am by nature, character and profession has equipped me in ways that others are not.

We all teach the life we live in one way or another — Coaching life skills is therefore my area of expertises and have witnessed the greatest testimonials occur through this process. This has privileged me and heightened my grow mindset ensuring I never remain stagnant thus providing a high value service is at the core of my passion made purpose.

What are you waiting for?!
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MISSION STATEMENT

To create sustainable life transformation from within —
To live is to serve. To serve is to love. To love is without limits.

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